5 Things No One Tells You About Planning a Bachelorette Party
Planning a bachelorette party sounds fun (and it is), but once you open the group chat… chaos.
As someone who plans these for a living, trust me — there are a few little surprises that pop up EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. So whether you're the bride, MOH, sister, or somehow “accidentally in charge,” here’s what you should know before diving in:
1. Someone will ghost — emotionally or literally.
She was SO in during the vibe check. Said she was “so excited.” And now? Radio silence.
✨ Pro Tip: Always plan with a buffer. Book for one less than confirmed and don’t take it personally.
2. The bride might say she doesn’t care. She does.
She’ll tell you she’s chill. That she’s just happy to be with her people. And that’s sweet — but even laid-back brides usually have one or two things they secretly care about. Ask her what those are early.
✨ Pro tip: Ask what actually matters to her. There’s always one or two things. Nail those = happy bride.
3. Pinterest is inspiring… and wildly deceiving.
Those perfect tablescapes? Sponsored. That “simple” itinerary? Took 12 hours, 3 spreadsheets, and a full group chat meltdown. Inspiration is great — but execution is where the real magic (and stress) happens.
✨ My favorite no-fail Amazon finds for bach & bridal party prep:
▸ Disco Ball Tumblers – The ultimate party cup for the whole crew — sparkly, fun, and very Instagram-able.
▸ Bride-Only Tumbler – Because she deserves one that says “main character” in every sip.
▸ Modern & Elegant Balloon Garland – Blush pinks, bows, and neutrals for the bridal shower or bachelorette party that’s giving “Pinterest board come to life.” Timeless and photo-ready. ▸ Disco Cowgirl Balloon Garland – Yeehaw, but make it glam. With disco balls, silver stars, and cow print accents, this is THE garland for your wild bach weekend. Just add boots and tequila.
▸ Holographic “Hangover Recovery” Pouches – Shiny, sassy, and totally on-theme for a wild bach weekend. Fill with your fave recovery essentials: Liquid IV, Advil, mints, eye patches… you know the drill. ▸ Canvas Drawstring Bags – A little more refined (but still cheeky). Perfect for showers, more low-key weekends, or as part of a morning-after mimosa bar.
▸ Classic “Bride” + “Bride Tribe” Set – Timeless, simple, and adorable in every group photo. These pink-and-white sunnies are easy to match with any outfit or theme. ▸ Heart Sunnies with Statement Bride Pair – For the crew that wants a little extra. These heart-shaped sunglasses are cute AF, and the bride’s pair is blinged out with pearls and letter beads.
▸ Pearl Heart Sunnies + Bride-to-Be Veil + Sash Set – A complete set that’s classy, photogenic, and just a little bit extra (in the best way). Perfect for bridal showers or bachelorette brunch vibes. ▸ Funny Sash Pack – Go full party mode with titles like “Designated Drunk,” “Shot Queen,” and “Maid of Dishonor.” These make for hilarious pics and even funnier memories.
As an Amazon affiliate, I may earn from qualifying purchases (no extra cost to you!)— but I only share what I’d actually pack myself. 💅
💖 PS: Stay tuned… the Dairyland Bach Co. online store is dropping soon! Custom party goods, curated bundles, and way-too-cute extras are on the way.
4. Group budgets are… fragile.
Everyone’s chill until the Venmo request hits. Suddenly, your “whatever’s easiest” crew has very specific opinions.
✨ Pro tip: Don’t wait for a perfect consensus — set a realistic budget early and be upfront about expectations. Or let me do it for you and keep the group chat peaceful.
5. You don’t have to do it alone.
You don’t need to plan the whole thing at 1 a.m. with 6 open tabs and a drink in hand (unless you want to).
✨ Pro tip: My planning packages take you from chaos to confetti — you can view them here or book a Power Hour if you just need help surviving the group chat.
In a nutshell:
Planning a bachelorette party seems easy — until the budget drama, outfit debates, and Airbnb reviews show up. Don’t let it ruin the vibe. Plan smarter, not harder.
REady to skip the stress? :
Browse my planning packages or grab a Power Hour and let’s turn that group chat chaos into a plan that actually works.
From spreadsheets to spritzers, I’ve got you. 